Enneagram Coaching
What’s included in the Initial Coaching Session:
Access to an online assessment (typically takes about 20 minutes to complete)
A downloadable 13-page PDF report
60-minute Coaching session on Zoom to debrief your assessment (option to download the audio or video recording afterward)
A customized list of resources and tools to support your goals and ongoing development
The report and coaching session will cover your:
Main Enneatype
Enneatype spread across all 9 Types and 3 Instincts
Trifix - gut, heart, head styles
Wings and Lines with suggestions for further development
Reflection prompts, relationship tips, development opportunities, and more.
Please schedule your session at least 1 week from today, to allow time to complete the assessment and read through it twice before the coaching session
To schedule a follow-up Enneagram Coaching session, click here.
“If we observe ourselves truthfully and non-judgmentally, seeing the mechanisms of our personality in action, we can wake up, and our lives can be a miraculous unfolding of beauty and joy.”
― Don Richard Riso, The Wisdom of the Enneagram
More About the Enneagram
The Enneagram is a personality typing system that categorizes human behavior into nine distinct types, while supporting your uniqueness. It clarifies the core motivation of each type, enhancing awareness of habitual behavior patterns that may hinder our growth in life.
Working with this map allows us to navigate life transitions with more self-awareness and acceptance. It can support us in any domain of life including relationship challenges, work-life balance, interpersonal dynamics, experiencing greater fulfillment, and more.
The Enneagram essentially says that we are all asleep, or in a type of trance that we need to wake up from in order to develop, mature, and grow. Our Enneatype shows us our trance type, and offers a path of growth from small, pragmatic steps to the larger phases throughout life.
“Our human (egoic) tendency is to want to feel good (and to avoid feeling bad) about ourselves. But without a way of recognizing, accepting, and addressing all of who we are, including the Shadow side and difficult parts of our experience, our personal growth stops and we remain asleep to our potential.
The Enneagram reveals the truth of what we might see as the “good” and the “bad” parts of our habitual programming, allowing us to compassionately address the disowned and “fixated” (stuck) parts of our personalities and to embrace ourselves as we truly are.”
― Beatrice Chestnut, The Complete Enneagram: 27 Paths to Greater Self-Knowledge
There are many online assessment options to determine your main Enneatype. Alli is trained in the Aephoria Assessment, widely regarded as one of the top options. It offers rich layers of awareness and specific tools, whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already working with its wisdom.
The assessment is intended for self-awareness and to facilitate rich discussion centered on self-compassion. Rather than put us in a box, the results can help us to get out of the box by seeing layers of unconscious motivations for habitual behavior that we may be ready to outgrow.
“…when we bring awareness to our habitual personality, we are healing not just our own problems but also the destructive patterns that have been taking their toll for many generations, possibly for centuries, within our bloodline. Working on ourselves therefore redeems not only our own sufferings and struggles but the sufferings and struggles of all our ancestors.”
“...misalignment between our ingrained habits and our yearning to live authentically and spontaneously becomes a source for all kinds of suffering, dissatisfaction, and unhappiness. The early coping strategies we don’t need anymore become unseen prisons that constrain how we think, feel, and act in ways that feel so familiar and integral that we forget we have the capacity to choose other options. In this way, we go to sleep to ourselves while thinking we are still awake. We lose our freedom to engage creatively and consciously in the world without even knowing we’ve lost it.”